You have a wonderful girl you are courting and now you don't want to lose her. You want things to go ahead. So, how do you ensure that your courting goes beyond mere courting? Here are some tips that can help you.
1. Make an attempt to look your best on dates. Guys are prone to be slipshod when they have become familiar with a particular person. Don't fall into that trap. Put an effort to dress up for your special girl... always.
2. Be punctual on your dates. There is nothing anybody hates more than being kept waiting. Your girl may wait for you the first couple of times but she will hate you all the same. After that, she will simply stop bothering to wait.
3. Always have something interesting to talk about. It is great if your girl and you have some common things to talk about besides just talking about yourselves. Keep the talk lively and interesting and, very importantly, impersonal.
4. Be a bit chivalrous. Show your care and concern for the girl, but not too much or it would be construed as pity. Like, holding the door open for her is all right but dropping her home every time is not. Girls don't like that nowadays.
5. Be yourself. Don't try to imitate others. Don't do things just because you have seen a movie star doing it or because you think it is cool. Act according to your convictions.
6. Be cheerful all the time. If you are grumpy and whiny, the girl is going to be apprehensive about being with you. It is great to work at your sense of humor.
7. Don't suddenly grow allergic to other girls. If you push yourself too hard, there's every chance that the girl you are courting will start to feel queasy about being with you. She should know that her options are open till she is ready to commit.
8. Speak of your family and your friends. Girls look upon that as a sign of credibility in a man.
9. Ask her more about herself. Most girls love to chat about their work and the people they know and their likes and dislikes. Get to know her better.
10. Always ask for another date but let her decide when and where. That way she will feel that she is part of the game as well and won't feel as though she is playing into your hands. This makes her feel important.
